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Greek Island where Aristotle Onassis married Jackie Kennedy is sold for $153 million

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Island, off coast of Greece, was bought by Onassis in 1962 for £10,000

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Posted by on April 11, 2013 in investing, marriage, money

 

A powerful bride…

VISHNUPUR KHURD: Spotlessly clean and decorated with plastic flowers and balloons for its opening ceremony, Priyanka Bharti´s toilet is seen as a gleaming symbol of the empowerment of Indian women.

It has been built in the village of Vishnupur Khurd in Uttar Pradesh state due to the determination of Priyanka, a young bride who walked out of her new marital home when she was appalled to find she had to defecate in the open.

The ensuing drama soon became well-known in the area as the newlyweds’ scandalised families both tried to persuade her to return to her husband but she refused, saying the shame of squatting in the fields was too much to bear.

“I was adamant that I could not stay in a home where people might see me go to the toilet outside in an unhygienic way,” Priyanka said after the lavatory, constructed by sanitation charity Sulabh, was ceremonially unveiled last week.

“I don’t know where I got the strength,” she told AFP. “But I come from a family with many strong women and when I moved to my husband’s house I was without my relatives and friends and I was having to adjust to a new life.”

Her firm stance paid unexpected dividends after Sulabh, one of India’s largest social organisations, heard about her protest and adopted her cause as a way to promote better public health through proper toilet facilities.

It even awarded Priyanka a 200,000-rupee ($3,600) prize that was presented at the official opening of the small toilet building, with the bride agreeing to move back in with her husband.

“We did not really believe the money was a true story, so we are shocked,” said Priyanka, whose marriage was arranged when she was aged just 14, although she was not taken to her husband until April when she turned 19.

She stayed at her new home for just four days before fleeing when her family came to visit from their village 20 kilometres (12 miles) away. She refused to return to the marital home until the toilet was ready to use.

“My parents were apprehensive and angry but I convinced them it was what I had to do. They had a basic indoor toilet, so for me to start going outside was too difficult,” she said.

Defecating in the open is a major social issue in India, touching on topics including women’´s rights, health and hygiene, and the clash between traditional and modern lifestyles.

“Women will not go in the open during the day so they must visit the fields before dawn and then wait many hours again until after dusk,” Bindeshwar Pathak, who founded Sulabh in 1973, said.

“Walking barefoot in these areas is bad for catching tapeworm, bacteria and many other diseases, and is unhealthy for children who play. People used to not talk about this issue but now it is a public debate.”

Pathak, one of India’s most notable activists, has for decades campaigned for the use of simple indoor toilets and has also fought for low-caste Dalits (formerly “Untouchables”) who often clean out other people´s bucket toilets.

“We gave awards to Priyanka and two other brides who refused to live with their new families due to lack of toilets,” he said. “We want them to be torchbearers whose example encourages better sanitation.”

India’s Rural Development Minister Jairam Ramesh said recently that India “should be ashamed” that 60 to 70 percent of women are forced to defecate in the open and he vowed further funding to tackle the problem.

However, government schemes to build new facilities are often undermined by corruption, with recent allegations that in Uttar Pradesh alone, millions of toilets meant to have been built by state authorities were never constructed.

According to the 2011 census, about 131 million households in India have no latrine in their premises, with eight million using public facilities and 123 million defecating in the open.

Among those with an indoor toilet, 800,000 households use a bucket device cleaned by humans and 500,000 use containers left out for animals to eat from.

In Vishnupur Khurd, the new toilet block, with its freshly-painted yellow walls, stands out among the jumble of huts and houses made of rough bricks.

The structure contains two cesspits, plus an attached storeroom and washroom as Sulabh organisers say they find that a single new toilet with a lockable door often ends up being used for storage instead.

For villagers such as Kamala Wati Sharma, 45, the new building – and the cash prize – are to be admired and perhaps envied.

“We have nothing in our house,” she said during a break in the day-long opening ceremonies, which included blessings, speeches and dance performances organised by Sulabh and attended by hundreds of villagers.

“It is a problem for us to go to the toilet outside in the dark,” said the mother of five. “But it costs money for something like this.”

Sulabh, which has provided 1.2 million toilets to poor rural Indians, admits that the toilet built for Priyanka and her new family cost over $1,000 but says that more basic designs can be constructed for well under $30.

Priyanka´s husband Amarjeet, 20, believes the most important thing is that his wife has at last returned to his home – though he adds he is amazed and proud that she has suddenly become the centre of a publicity campaign.

“I was embarrassed when she asked ‘where is the toilet?’ and we had to tell her to go outside,” he said. “Now it is built we are going to maintain it and use it properly.”

 
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Posted by on July 3, 2012 in funny, marriage, think

 

True Love falls victim to honor killing

Sahar Shafia told her boyfriend’s aunt that she believed her parents would kill her if they found out about her relationship with the young man from Honduras, but she planned to tell them about it because she would love him “until death,” the murder trial of her parents and brother has heard.

“She told me that her parents did not know about the relationship with Ricardo and the day that her parents knew about the relationship with Ricardo she would be a dead woman,” Erma Medina testified Wednesday. She said Sahar repeated the claim several times and appeared serious.

via Shafia daughter thought parents would kill her, court hears.

 
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Posted by on December 2, 2011 in marriage, think

 

Scientists find mathematical formula for the perfect wife

The academic study, published in the European Journal of Operational Research looked at 1,074 couples aged between 19 and 75 years, to find which social factors were most important to a long and happy relationship.

Besides the man being five years older than his bride, and that his bride should share the same heritage, they concluded that a wife should be at least 27 per cent more intelligent than her husband. She should also hold a degree, while he should not.

via Scientists find mathematical formula for the perfect wife – Telegraph.

 
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Posted by on July 14, 2011 in marriage

 

Immigration officer fired after putting wife on list of terrorists to stop her flying home | Mail Online

An immigration officer tried to rid himself of his wife by adding her name to a list of terrorist suspects.

He used his access to security databases to include his wife on a watch list of people banned from boarding flights into Britain because their presence in the country is ‘not conducive to the public good’.

As a result the woman was unable for three years to return from Pakistan after travelling to the county to visit family.

The tampering went undetected until the immigration officer was selected for promotion and his wife name was found on the suspects’ list during a vetting inquiry.

via Immigration officer fired after putting wife on list of terrorists to stop her flying home | Mail Online.

 
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Posted by on February 15, 2011 in humanity, immigration, marriage, think

 

Woman deported in ’08 allowed to return to U.S.

The marriage that the federal government once decided was a sham has lasted 18 years.

James and Emelinda Hollis celebrated their 18th wedding anniversary yesterday, embracing just outside the security gates at Port Columbus. It had been two years and seven days since they last saw each other, when Emelinda was deported to her native Philippines.

via Woman deported in ’08 allowed to return to U.S., rejoin husband | The Columbus Dispatch.

 
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Posted by on November 26, 2010 in immigration, info, marriage

 

Father and son fight over £5.1m divorce settlement

The son says that when the divorce settlement was agreed, his father retained 52.5% of the couple’s joint assets, close to £11 million, and in return agreed to take on all the risks of the business from which his mother had retired.

 

Nigel Dyer QC, representing the 71-year-old father, said any damages award should be a joint liability because the accident happened when his former wife was his business partner.

 

He said it was not foreseeable during the divorce proceedings that the insurers might repudiate liability under the insurance policy and refuse to indemnify the business.

 

via Father and son fight over £5.1m divorce settlement – Home News, UK – The Independent.

 
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Posted by on November 11, 2010 in marriage, money

 
 
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